Renungan Satu Tahun Kemaren

September 7th, 2007 by rinaldo8981

Tongeren, Belgie, 07 September 2007, pukul 07.47 pm……..

Besok bakal bertambah umurku setahun. Bukan berarti panjang umur, tapi umur ku malah berkurang satu dari yang sudah ditetapkan Nya. Wah semoga aku masih bisa menghirup udara esok hari, dan menikmati usiaku yang kalo boleh dibilang udah harus dewasa……..

Tepat 26 tahun yang lalu, lahirlah seorang bayi laki-laki dari pasangan Adji Piet Hartono dan Aminah, yang merupakan bayi ke enam sekaligus yang terakhir dari kedua pasangan itu. Yah nama lengkapnya Adji Achmad Rinaldo Fernandes, yang dari kecil biasa di sapa Andres (dari nama akhir Fernandes, ditambah r). Sepanjang 19 tahun pertama, dihabiskan di Pulau Kalimantan, trus 6 tahun berikutnya dihabiskan di Pulau Jawa, tepatnya di Kota Malang tercinta, dan setahun terakhir berada di Belgie………

Apa yang sudah aku perbuat setahun terakhir? Tepat setahun yang lalu, atau tepatnya tanggal 8 September 2006, or bertepatan dengan hari renunganku yang ke 25, aku mendapatkan surat pemberitahuan penerimaan beasiswa ke Belgie dari Universitas Hasselt. Begitu senangnya. Akhirnya diriku berangkat ke Belgie tertanggal 7 Oktober 2006. Dan memulai kuliah master in Applied Statistics. Alhamdulillah dalam setahun terakhir ini pula, diriku mendapatkan gelar Master of Science, yaitu suatu impian yang dulu hanya merupakan sebuah cita-cita kecilku, yang mungkin gak bisa tercapai. Tapi Alhamdulillah, ternyata Allah memberikan pintu yang lebar buatku untuk merengkuh cita-cita itu.

Refleksi dari setahun belakangan ini, cukup banyak pengalaman yang berharga yang aku dapatkan selama tinggal nun jauh dari kampung halaman. Begitu besar karunia Nya sehingga tidak ada satu patah katapun yg bisa terucap kepada Nya, kecuali rasa terima kasih yang begitu besar. Dan semoga semua pengalaman berharga ini, paling gak bisa jadi pelajaran buat menghadapi masa depan ku yang mudah2an masih diberi umur yang cukup (bukan panjang lho) dari Allah SWT…..

Akhir dari renunganku ini, semoga sisa umurku ke depan, aku masih diberi jalan yang terang, dan masih tetap berada pada jalur yang benar, yaitu jalan yang di ridhoi Allah SWT. Satu pintaku, semoga di umurku berikutnya (kalau Allah mengizinkan), masih diberi pintu untuk membahagiakan orang tua ku, dan juga pastinya (hehehe), diberi pasangan yang tepat untuk mengarungi bahtera rumah tangga. Amin………..

Terima kasih teman2 semua yang udah ngebaca blog ini…….
Sampai ketemu lagi di Indonesia (Insya Allah balik tanggal 22 September)
Wassalam

Selamat Jalan Nenek….

August 27th, 2007 by rinaldo8981

Tenggarong, 27 Agustus 2007, 05.25 WITA

Datang kabar dari kakakku, bahwa nenek tersayang, Adji Salbiah binti Adji Pangeran Ratu, telah di panggil ke hadapan Allah SWT, ketika memasuki usia ke 83 tahun. Innalillahi Wa Innailaihi Rojiun. Semoga arwah nenek diterima disisi Nya, dan semoga segala kesalahan dan kekhilafan baik yang disengaja maupun yang tidak disengaja, diampuni oleh Allah SWT. Tak lupa, cucunda mu ini, ingin minta maaf, atas segala khilaf dan dusta selama ini kepada Nenek. Terima kasih banyak nek, atas segala yang nenek berikan.

Sedih rasanya, kepergian nenek, diriku jauh dari sana. Terlebih, sudah hampir 2 tahun diriku tidak bertatap muka dengan nenek. Ternyata, lebaran 2005 adalah terakhir kali aku bertemu dengan nenek tercinta. Mohon maaf nek, harapan cucunda ingin ngobrol ma nenek setelah kepulangan dari Belgie, dengan menggunakan bahasa belanda tidak kesampaian. Wallahualam.

Selamat Jalan Nek,

Tongeren, 27 Agustus 2007, 19.15 malam

Tour de Hamburger

July 26th, 2007 by rinaldo8981

Hamburg, 26Jul07, 22:16
Deutschland

Alhamdulillah, akhirnya bisa ngerasain Jerman juga nih. Hmm perjalanan panjang yang melelahkan aku lalui di hari Senin (23 Jul) kemaren. Berawal dari rumah sekitar pukul 13.45, menggunakan DeLijn nomor 74 tujuan Tongeren Station. Nyampe di Station Tongeren jam 14.00. Karena jadwal bis nya gak matching, kudu nunggu di station lagi, menuju bis selanjutnya, DeLijn nomor 62 tujuan Maastricht Station, pukul 14.44. Nyampe di Maastricht (Nederland) jam 15.30. Nah kalo DeLijn, aku masih pake kartu abonemen gitu satu tahun. Jadi gak mikir biaya.
Berikutnya, perjalanan aku lanjutkan menggunakan Bis Veolia (Netherland), nomor 50, ke arah Aachen Hbf, jam 15.46, trus nyampe ke Hauptbahnhof (Station) sekitar pukul 16.48. Biaya nya 6 euro, tapi itu sebenarnya untuk 2 orang, gak ada harga yg untuk satu orang. Dasar PELIT. Hehehehee
Yah, kegiatan menunggu lagi harus dilakukan, coz kereta berangkat pukul 17.49. Kebetulan kemaren dapat harga spesial dari kereta, sebesar 29 euro, dari harga normal 79 euro (lagi promosi tuh DB=Deuthce Bahn). Ganti kereta di Dortmund jam 20.15. Trus, ada kendala teknis, kereta selanjutnya direncanakan datang 20.25, eh delay n baru datang jam 21.10. Sooo, jadi inget kereta di Indo nih, naek gajayana, dari Jakarta, katanya berangkat jam 17.00, eh kereta baru berangkat jam 19.00……
Alhasil nyampe di Hamburg jam 23.55, di jemput oleh Tante Lies, n Desiree (keluarga ketemu gede nih, hehehe). Setiba di rumah Om n Tante, wuih, bagus bgt rumahnya. Meski kecil, tapi tertata rapi, dan bersiiiiiih bgt. Aku dapat jatah kamar Desiree, dan si empu nya kamar kudu ngungsi di kamar Om n Tante. hehehe. Yah, seperti nginep di Hotel deh. Keluarga Hamburg ini baeeeek bgt. Meski Desiree suka jahilin. Hehehe. Eits keliru, Desiree yg suka dijahilin. ^_^
Berikutnya keliling Hamburg ditemani Desiree. Nih anak, sudah seperti sodara sendiri. Di sana ngumpul ma anak2 Indonesia. Aduh, jadi keinget ma kampung halaman nih, seharian kita ngobrol n ngafe, cerita apapun tanpa henti. Maklum dunia pergaulanku di Belgia, jarang ketemu n ngobrol2 ma teman2 yg sepantaran dari segi umur. Coz, di Belgie, kalo gak maen ma yg udah merit, yah maen ma Danish n Aisya, yg umurnya baru 3 tahun, hehehe.
Ternyata, Hamburg itu Indaaaah. Om n Tante, n desiree juga, jangan kapok yah nerima Adji lagi sbg tamu. Hehehe……..
Next: Trip to Berlin……….

Malang n Balikpapan tercinta, tunggu aku

July 22nd, 2007 by rinaldo8981

Tongeren, Belgie, Minggu 22 July, 10:32

Alhamdulillah, tepat 2 bulan ke depan, diriku akan mendarat di Djuanda Surabaya dengan penerbangan Luthfansa dan Singapore Airline, menuju ke kota Malang tercinta. Setelah setahun menempuh pendidikan di negeri orang, akhirnya tiba waktunya untuk pulang dan kembali ke kampung halaman.
Hmm, masih lama yah. Masih ada dua bulan. Masih lama buat diriku menemui kedua orang tua, saudara2, keponakan2, dan tak lupa, sang calon permaisuri kelak. Amin. Insya ALlah dua bulan sisa diriku di Eropa, aku akan habiskan waktu selama 2-3 minggu di Hamburg Jerman, trus selama 4,5 minggu kerja di kampus tercinta. Dan, keliling lagi, hehehe. Berburu oleh2.
Gimana kabar mereka semua yah, baik di Malang maupun di Balikpapan?
Miss you all………

Dank u en tot ziens

Alhamdulillah, finally dapet juga MSc

July 6th, 2007 by rinaldo8981

Hasselt, BelgiƩ, 6 July 2007

Alhamdulillah, setelah perjuangan panjang dan melelahkan, akhirnya seorang Adji mendapatkan gelar Master of Science in Applied Statistics (MSc).
Allah Tuhanku, aku tak tau harus bagaimana mengucapkan terima kasih kepadamu. Begitu banyak yang telah Kau berikan pada hambamu ini. Insya Allah aku akan dan ingin selalu dekat dengan Mu.
Ayah dan Ibu, aku tau, kalau bukan karena restu dan doa mu, aku gak bakal dapatkan apa yang aku inginkan. Terima kasih, telah menyertakan namaku dalam segenap doa-doa mu.
Teman2ku, dosen2ku di kampus UB dan Uhasselt, mas tio n kel, dan lain2 yang gak bisa aku sebutkan, thx yah berkat doa dan semangatnya……. aku gak pernah lupa itu. Dan spesial yang lagi dekat di hatiku, thx bgt atas segalanya. hihihi….

Next: S3 dan Stri, hehehehehe………

PS:
"Dia Menciptakan langit dan bumi dengan (tujuan) yang benar; Dia menutupkan malam atas siang dan menutupkan siang atas malam dan menundukkan matahari dan bulan, masing-masing berjalan menurut waktu yang ditentukan. Ingatlah Dia-lah Yang Maha Perkasa lagi Maha Pengampun" (QS Az-zumar 5)

Thanks Tuhanku, Allah Maha Besar…..

June 23rd, 2007 by rinaldo8981

Assalamualaikum,
Wah udah lama gak ngisi blog. Akhirnya, kamis kemaren (21 Juni) adalah hari terakhir ujian kuliahku. Tak terasa udah mau berakhir. Oleh karena itu, aku akhirnya bisa lari sore lagi. Yah, mudah2an aktifitas rutin ini bisa dilakukan serutin mungkin.

Allah Maha Besar. Yah itulah yang patut aku sanjungkan kepada Mu. Allah Maha Pemurah lagi Maha Penyayang. Susah sedih, senang bahagia aku lampaui selama hampir satu tahun di Belgia ini. ALhamdulilah semua berjalan dengan lancar.

Yang pertama masalah tesisku. Seperti perkiraan semula, tesisku akan berakhir September besok. Tapi, karena suatu ‘kendala’ yang menyenangkan, yaitu Supervisorku (Dosen pembimbing, red), akan tidak ada lagi di Belgia mulai Agustus besok, akhirnya, dengan segala jerih payah, aku harus secepatnya menyelesaikan tesis, dan harus ikut ujian tesis tgl 4 July besok.

Oleh karena itulah, aku benar2 hamba yang lagi di sayang oleh Nya. Seberat apapun beban yang aku jinjing, Alhamdulilah, terasa ringan. Tesisku selesai tepat waktu. Dan aku alhamdulilah bisa ujian defense tesisku tgl 4 July besok. Alhamdulillah lancar semua urusannya, dan proklamasi lulus gak nya tgl 6 July besok. Tapi aku akan ikut Graduation Day tgl 19 September, karena scholarshipku ampe September. Its ok, hehehe. Sembari nunggu Graduation Day, aku bisa memperbaiki nilai di akhir Agustus (Reexam), dan bisa kerja di Kampus. Alhamdulillah.

So, sekarang menunggu hari untuk ujian tesis, dan semoga mendapatkan MSc (Master of Science)…….. Amin

Ya
Tuhan kami, jangalah Engkau jadikan hati kami condong kepada kesesatan
sesudah Engkau beri petunjuk kepada kami, dan karuniakanlah kepada kami
Rahmat dari sisi Engkau, karena sesungguhnya Engkau-lah Maha Pemberi
(Karunia)
QS. Ali Imran 8

The Sultanate of Kutai (Kalimantan Timur):A Sketch of the Traditional Political Structure

June 20th, 2007 by rinaldo8981

Until
the arrival in 1846 of H. von Dewall, the first Dutch civil administrator on
the east coast of Borneo, political and economic power in Kutai was in the
hands of the sultan and his immediate family. This power was exercised
principally along the mahakam river. and its branches. The
jurisdiction of the sultan ceased officially at Gunung Sendawar, a small hill,
which plays a prominent role in the legend concerning the origins of the
dynastic house of Kutai and is located between Melak and Long Iram on the
Mahakam. The sultan was forbidden to travel beyond Gunung Sendawar, a
prohibition never formally transgressed. Nevertheless, disregarding the spirit
of elections called. The sultan bestowed pompous titles on the Buginese as a
means of securing their loyalty and this was instrumental in their gradual
assimilation (ca. 1860).

Titles
were always rather cheap in Kutai, but the 19th century saw such an
indiscriminate awarding of them that their prestige became grossly devaluated. There
were hardly any standards or norms for the awarding of lower titles. The most
important titles were: tumenggung, raden, demang, kiahi. The pembekels, or
village heads, were given titles commensurate to their services or years in
office. Village chiefs received no salary, but since 1903 were allowed to keep
for themselves 8 of the head taxes collected in their area. Dayak and Malay
villages had hereditary adat-heads, recognized or appointed by the sultan at a
ceremony in which they were given Malay titles. The headmen of new kampongs
were appointed by the sultan taking into account the wishes of the people. Only
in the 1930’s did it become customary for regular meetings to be called by the
sultan at which the country’s problems were discussed by native and Dutch civil
servants together.

The
headman’s task was mainly that of upholding local adat. Freemen influenced the
course of village affairs by pronouncing their opinions at consultations with
the village head. This was also the case in Dayak villages, where, in fact, the
community was generally ruled by an assembly of village men. The headman had a
few real means of power; it was more a question of his persuasiveness and
prestige. Neither was he entitled to act on his own in the name of the village;
the community was responsible and liable as a whole.

With
the breakdown of tribal homogeneity, the power of the village headman was
further curtailed. The functions which were main-springs of his power, such as
the administration of justice, were gradually usurped by the government. The
village chief was thus gradually reduced to the role of executor of the
government’s orders, and he was no longer a real representative of his people.

Due to
these changes there was little interest in the list of candidates for the
office of village headman. In order to counteract the obvious disadvantages
resulting from this indifference the government, and sometimes the sultan,
resorted to the appointment of so-called adat-heads. But their jurisdictional
districts were no longer communities in the sense of sharing common adat but
were merely administrative districts. This institution therefore proved no help
in bridging the gap.

In
Kutai, in former times, judgments were pronounced in accordance with the adat
book of laws, Beradja Nanti, by the courts at Tenggarong, Samarinda, and Kota
Bangun. The chairman and the members of these courts were appointed and
dismissed by the sultan. The Beradja Nanti mentions, in addition, the
desirability of consultations with the manteri-negri; without which, it is
said, the sultan cannot reign fruitfully.The sultans have followed this willing
to allow the Dutch to look after the country’s interests in as far as their
activities did not directly affect them. And the Dutch in turn were not
reluctant to take over all sorts of tasks thus greatly increasing their hold on
the region. The real power was now in the hands of the Dutch although the sultanate
remained technically autonomous and was nominally governed by the sultan and
his manteri-negri.

When Adji
Sultan Mohammed Caliudin died in July, 1845, the preceeding political order
degenerated. Some of the prominent men schemed to usurp power, and the seven
year old heir to the throne, Adji Sultan Mohammed Soleiman Adil Chalifatui
Muminim (1845-1899), became a pawn in their intrigues. The perdana-manteri
(first great officer of state) became regent, but his regency resulted in
wide-spread anarchy and lawlessness: criminals were no longer prosecuted,
robbery and arson were a daily occurrence and were employed as a recognized
means of existence by the followers of princes and lords. Pirates from
Balingingi, Tongka, and Tarakan plagued the east coast and the slave trade
flourished.

When
J. Zwager was installed in 1853 as Assistant-Resident in Samarinda, the
manteri-negri informed him in an unanimous declaration that they were powerless
to end the prevailing anarchy because they had neither the soldiers nor other means
to do so. They speculated on receiving such means from the Dutch. During this
period the people of Samarinda repeatedly took up arms to defend and avenge
themselves. They formed their own council, composed of the Pau Adu (chief of
police), the Sjahbandar (port master) and the Imam (for religious cases). This
council tried as well as it could to restore law and order. When the sultan
came of age, the Dutch government in 1863 signed a treaty with him wherein the
sultan and his officers declared that the kingdom of Kutai was a part of the Dutch East
Indies, subject to the Netherland, and belonged to the Sultan only as a fief. The authority of the Dutch became in
this way more official and concretes and at the same time peace and order were
restored.

When a
sultan dies, his oldest (legitimate) son, the Pangeran Ratu succeeds to the
throne. When the heir to the throne is underage than the oldest brother of the
deceased king is named regent with the title Pangeran Mangku Putra. In the
event that the deceased monarch has no brothers, the great officers of the
state act in comnson as regent (patih) and assume the title of Mangku Sukma. Wh
the oldest son of the sultan is a child of a concubine, and not of the sultana,
he becomes Putra Sukma, never Pangeran Ratu (since he is ineligible for the
throne).

For a
long time the Buginese enjoyed a singular status in Kutai. Coming from Celebes , they established themselves around 1700 in what
is now Samarinda, spreading later through all of Kutai. During the 18th century,
and even later, they occupied a virtually autonomous position and were subject
to their own Pau Adu, elected by the kepala manang or heads of the important
Buginese families of state. However, the man elected could be vetoed by the
sultan and new counsel conscientiously, especially in the 20th century. There
seem to have been yet a second book of laws in use, namely one for the
aristocracy, in which the penalties prescribed ware milder than in the Beradja
Nanti. This book of laws fell into disuse as increasingly the laws of the  Dutch East Indies were applied to Kutai.

Stuck In A Moment You Can’t Get Out Of

June 11th, 2007 by rinaldo8981

sebuah lagu dari U2, wuih enak didengar, menghilangkan kepenatan dari ujian berkepanjangan

*****

I’m not afraid of anything in this world

There’s nothing you can throw at me that I
haven’t already heard

I’m just trying to find a decent melody

A song that I can sing in my own company

 

I never thought you were a fool

But darling, look at you

You gotta stand up straight, carry your own
weight

These tears are going nowhere, baby

 

You’ve got to get yourself together

You’ve got stuck in a moment and now you
can’t get out of it

Don’t say that later will be better now you’re
stuck in a moment

And you can’t get out of it

 

I will not forsake, the colours that you
bring

But the nights you filled with fireworks

They left you with nothing

I am still enchanted by the light you
brought to me

I still listen through your ears, and through
your eyes I can see

 

And you are such a fool

To worry like you do

I know it’s tough, and you can never get
enough

Of what you don’t really need now… my oh
my

 

You’ve got to get yourself together

You’ve got stuck in a moment and now you
can’t get out of it

Oh love look at you now

You’ve got yourself stuck in a moment and
now you can’t get out of it

 

I was unconscious, half asleep

The water is warm till you discover how
deep…

I wasn’t jumping… for me it was a fall

It’s a long way down to nothing at all

 

You’ve got to get yourself together

You’ve got stuck in a moment and now you
can’t get out of it

Don’t say that later will be better now

You’re stuck in a moment and you can’t get
out of it

 

And if the night runs over

And if the day won’t last

And if our way should falter

Along the stony pass

 

And if the night runs over

And if the day won’t last

And if your way should falter

Along the stony pass

It’s just a moment

This time will pass

Amazing

May 26th, 2007 by rinaldo8981

Alhamdulilah aku haturkan kepada Allah SWT, karena hanya berkat rahmat Nya lah akhirnya diriku bisa mengelilingi beberapa kota di Perancis, Belgia, Belanda, Jerman, dan Luxembourg, dalam tempo april mei ini.
Its amazing. Perancis:Paris 2-6 April, Belgium: Brussel, Ostende, Gent dan Brugge 12-15 April, Jerman: Aachen 12 Mei, Belanda: Leiden Keukenhoff, Amsterdam (Red Light boo), Volendam, dan Denhaag Madurodam, dan terakhir, Luxembourg hari ini 26 Mei………
Wuih, ternyata udah lama ya, gak nulis blog. Hehehe, super sibuk dg tesis dan jalan2
Next Trip: Indonesia (hehehe, medio September)……….
Minta doa ya, alhamdulilah tesisku udah selesai, dan akan ujian tesis tgl 4 Juli 2007……………
Terima kasih, Allah

Selamat

March 24th, 2007 by rinaldo8981

Belgium, 24 Maret 2007, 08.10 pagi

Hmm, hari ini tepat 39 tahun silam, kedua orang tuaku melangsungkan pernikahan. Buah dari cinta kasih mereka, lahirlah 6 anak, 5 laki dan 1 perempuan. Ya Allah terima kasih ya, engkau telah memberi jalan yang sangat panjang buat pernikahan orang tua saya. Semoga kelak selamanya hingga tutup usia.
Buat ayah dan ibu, selamat ya.